Does one eat to live or does one live to eat, the world is that of amusement, where the position of the world is to work towards the Hereafter, what is so wrong with putting your eggs in this one basket?
If one should choose that the priority is to, serve His Lord, then allow him to.
Why do people love to find enjoyment in connection with what disbelievers do?
Hanging around after late hours at a restaurant, perhaps they were too busy at work.
If work does not fulfil your religious obligations then perhaps, you should not work.
He will make a way better than what you were doing if indeed, it is Him you serve. E
njoy and enjoin what is permissible but some look like an excuse.
The truth of the matter is whether you live the life of the world or for what happens after.
There are some who do as much as they can do and they do not disregard others.
They treat them kindly, with courtesy unless they with Him associate others.
This is the religion of peace, but know the disbeliever wishes to throw you off the track.
Why would you then spend time with them, when they only wish for you to do bad?
Stand up for what you believe in indeed it is the truth whether you proclaim or hide it, He knows.
Having the right balance is important but that does not mean between doing an equal amount of both good and bad.
Choosing the better, out of the two is how one purifies himself.
Indeed, it is difficult except for those who are granted patience.
With Him, you can find it all, the food, the drink and warmth.
Hopefully, this does not come off as aggressive, indeed, if only you could know.